_edited.jpg)
My Story
Parenting has always been something I deeply wanted, but like many, I didn’t fully anticipate the unique challenges that would come with it. When my first child arrived, I thought I had it all figured out—motherhood felt manageable, even 'easy' at times. Then, my second child came along, and I was thrown into an entirely different world. My daughter, with her fierce independence and heightened sensitivity to everything from sounds to changes in routine, completely changed how I understood parenting.
Suddenly, every day felt like an emotional whirlwind. I questioned myself constantly:
"How do I parent a child who feels so deeply, who resists every routine?"
"How do I stay calm and positive when I feel overwhelmed?"
"Am I failing her by not knowing the answers?"
It took years of research, trial and error, and so much self-reflection to find a path that worked. I realised that the key wasn’t to ‘fix’ my child or myself, but to understand and embrace our differences, and build strategies that nurtured both of us.
It wasn’t until my late 40s that I realised I, too, was neurodivergent. This discovery opened up a whole new perspective on my parenting journey. I began to understand how my own sensory sensitivities, struggles with self regulation, and emotional highs and lows had impacted my approach to motherhood. Learning to embrace my differences and unlearning so much of what I thought I ‘should’ be as a parent was incredibly challenging. It was like getting to know myself all over again, while simultaneously trying to guide my children.
​
Now, I use what I’ve learned to support other parents who feel lost or overwhelmed. Whether your child is quiet and sensitive or loud and strong-willed, neurotypical or neurodivergent, there are ways to create a home where they can thrive emotionally. I’m passionate about helping families build the skills and routines they need to grow emotionally healthy, confident children—no matter how challenging the journey may feel at times.
I first joined your group I’ve really enjoyed your Friday lives and got so much out of them. I really enjoy watching you and feel as if I can relate to you so well, like old friends. You are so passionate about helping other parents and I know you are going through exactly the same as us. You use your own life often as examples, and I find that comforting to know we all go through the same things. You show us some really brilliant strategies. I’ve enjoyed not feeling alone on this parenting journey. I bought a few of the books you have recommended, and I promise I will read them. I look forward to being a member of this group for as long as you run it. Thank you so much xxx
Gemma Hurry
Review
Each week Gemma sets manageable tasks to focus on so putting things into practice doesn’t become overwhelming. You find that you are making small positive changes on a weekly basis that you can actually stick to because you aren’t trying to do it all at once.
It’s also lovely to see the hummingbird parenting community growing, Gemma is great at personally answering comments and messages from members and as the community is increasing, parents are beginning to offer support to each other too. It’s a lovely safe space to get parenting and self care tips and ideas, ask advice, share experiences and celebrate your victories. I’d recommend this group to parents of children of any age from babies to teenagers and beyond!